Jorge Pedret – Men: Complete Your Partner’s Communication – 90-min Online Workshop

Men: How do you hold space for your partner’s feelings & emotions?

Imagine this situation: You enter the room when all of a sudden your partner starts bursting out — “Jimmy Jr. was supposed to do his homework last night but he didn’t and now he’s going to fail his grades. His teacher complained to me that he’s picking on someone at school and he’ll get kicked out of school if something doesn’t change. My boss at work threatened to fire me if I didn’t comply with  the new company policies of performance.

You didn’t take out the recycling last night and now it’s been two weeks and the recycling is exploding all over the place. The house is a mess, the kitchen is unusable, the hinge of the gate to the garden is broken and we’re all out of groceries.”

By the time she’s done, your heart has taken a toll, you’re bleeding, you’ve become emotionally triggered by the outburst, and probably bursting out back at her your reaction to her outburst, or walking away overwhelmed.

Does this sound familiar? You’re not alone. Most of us have experienced this in one way or another. We learned this way of relating from our parents, from the movies, and from not having any other reference points about how relating works.

What is this Men: Complete Your Partner’s Communication – 90-min Online Workshop about?

This workshop is intended for you to learn and practice the skill of Completing Communication, or Completion Loops.

Through the 90-minutes you’ll get to practice to make communication happen. When you hear the clear and distinctive queue from your partner when they say: “YES”. When you hear that “YES”, it means that communication just happened. And this is very exciting when you experience it consciously.

This workshop is intended to take you from ordinary relating (neurotic speaking, arguing, discussing, logistics, victimhood, low-drama), to extraordinary relating (ecstatic collaboration, creating adventure, negotiating intimacy, experiencing healing, high-level fun, high-drama).

Now, don’t expect that this transition to extraordinary relating will completely change in this 90-min workshop, but what you can expect is to have the tools to continue practicing and developing this skill that I’m sure will change your world and the way that you see and work with communication.

Who is this workshop for?

• Men over 16yo, single or with partners
• You want to gain possibilities for expanding your current way of relating with your partner.
• You want to be more in service to your partner and other people with whom you communicate with.
• You have a passion and love for communication and want to get even better at it.
• You have specific questions about your specific case that you’d like to ask to the team.
• You want to gain skills to hold space for your partner and for what you love.

Why solving this communication problem matters?

• Because you care about your relation and want to improve, change, transform how it goes.
• Being able to hold space for your partner’s communication creates more trust in the relation and she’s able to delve deeper into her divine feminine and ultimately blossom like a flower.
• This process opens the doorway to learn more about your boundaries and how you can be of service to others with your powerful listening and communication skills.
• Not solving this problem would destine you to perpetuating the usual and where you know things are going.
• Communication persists until it’s received. Without completing her communication, it will simply start coming back at different times, until it is received.

Why me?

After 2+ years of practice, this tool of completing communication changed my life, not just with my partner but also with myself and with others that I communicated with. It allowed me to get out of my head (my thoughts, my interpretations, what I wanted to say back, my reactions) for me to be there with them with more presence and present with my voice.

I went from having arguments, avoidant conversations, vague sharings, to becoming aware of my purpose in communicating, in listening to others, and aware of how I could be in service of others, not tomorrow, or next week, but HERE and NOW.

This skill made my interactions with others more clear, it helped me to save time, to open and close clear spaces, and it ultimately helped me see more of others and be with them where they are.

Now, I’m excited to pass down this skill to you so that you can also create new possibilities in your relational spaces.

Common Pitfalls

Now, most people that start this practice probably don’t know that if you haven’t developed your emotional body, as soon as you get emotionally triggered, your agenda, purpose and intention violently switches to protect yourself from the communication that is being sent.

So, you might stand up, face your partner and start receiving the communication, but half way she says something that triggers the hell out of you and then your listening capacity drops. You start hearing mumbled words and loud words in your head.

In the workshop, you’ll learn the basic skills to practice so that you can become centered, grounded and bubbled, stay un-hookable and connected with your purpose, so that you can continue being in service to them.

You’ll also learn the 12 Unconscious Communication Roadblocks that stop someone from completing their communication.

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